It’s so weird to realize at the age of 34 that I’ve been queer/genderqueer my entire life. Not wildly, which is why I didn’t notice before, but enough that looking back it’s obvious that it’s had some long-standing effects on me.
Also it explains a lot about why I got hit on by lesbians so often in college. I always wondered what I was doing, but none of the girls I asked could ever put their finger on it.