estherlune: Totally platonic John wearing Sherlock’s clothes And looking fanfuckingtatic in them, might I add. Sherlock should dress him up more often. Post navigation There are some nice fics of less traditional johnlock relationships, like straight John/asexual Sherlock who don’t have sex, and I-don’t-know-what John/asexual Sherlock who do a lot of sexual things, but not everything. I don’t know how much they are like the real world, but at least it’s a window to see what these relationships *could* be like, for those of us (like me) who are fuzzy on the differences.I found your meta on the asexual committed queer relationship fascinating. Would you mind going into detail about what that includes? No sex, got it … but would such a pair cuddle? Are there hugs and kisses? Do they share a bed (just to sleep)? I think a sticking point is that a lot of folks equate asexual with ascetic, but they’d need some kind of physical aspect to a relationship just to know there IS one.