February 2, 2014

Hi. Wonderful analysis of Sherlock and John’s relationship! However there is something that is bugging me. You said that prior to John telling Sherlock that he’s his best friend and that he loves him, Sherlock didn’t know that John loves him. However do you think that Sherlock was aware of John’s attraction and obsession with him right from the start anyway, without realising it was actual love? Was Sherlock’s wedding epiphany about his own feelings towards John? And how much is John aware of?

ivyblossom: Based on these questions, I think you’re asking me to refute the arguments of…

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Ahhhh sorry, I probably should have specified that I was mostly differing with the post before yours? And my point of confusion wasn’t so much that (when I talk about emotional abuse I am talking mostly from my own experiences with it, though? which probably isn’t the best way to have a conversation about it xD ). What I meant was that John saying “why is everything always my fault” (which to me reads more as… TBC

cont… as “why are people blaming me for this shit, this isn’t actually my fault…

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