Tag: Asks

From anon asking about sholto(hopefully tumblr didnt eat it) sorry my bad, Mary did reserve a room for sholto RSVP or not. Follow up ask, is it customary to give wedding guest rooms? Why did Mary/John think sholto would be needing a room when he can just show up then leave before night do bec it’s already said he’s a recluse? He had a change of clothes so he slept there before the wedding?

For the destination weddings I’ve been invited to/involved in, my experience has been that generally…

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I found your meta on the asexual committed queer relationship fascinating. Would you mind going into detail about what that includes? No sex, got it … but would such a pair cuddle? Are there hugs and kisses? Do they share a bed (just to sleep)? I think a sticking point is that a lot of folks equate asexual with ascetic, but they’d need some kind of physical aspect to a relationship just to know there IS one.

Oh, it’s different for everybody. But a lot of asexuals frequently bemoan the lack of…

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There are some nice fics of less traditional johnlock relationships, like straight John/asexual Sherlock who don’t have sex, and I-don’t-know-what John/asexual Sherlock who do a lot of sexual things, but not everything. I don’t know how much they are like the real world, but at least it’s a window to see what these relationships *could* be like, for those of us (like me) who are fuzzy on the differences.

Yes! It’s a really awesome thing about this fandom—and Sherlock Holmes in general—that it is…

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I think too the idea that so many on ‘your side’ share- that ‘I don’t believe it, but I’ll certainly enjoy it if it happens!’ can cause strong reactions. You get to either be right, or you get your ‘ship. Meanwhile, ‘your side’ either calls them things like ‘unrealistic, delusional, crazy’ or stands by and watches while others do it.You get all the benefits, and none of the risks. You also position yourself as ‘not one of those fans- I’m a *cool* fan’

Anon, that is shitty. Not you; you’re not. I mean that if that’s the case,…

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